It is
common for new parents to hold a baby shower celebration to commemorate the
first month of their newborn. In my opinion, the full month celebration for the
infant is not just an occasion for parents to share their fruit of their labour,
after arduous months of carrying and delivering the baby, but it is also a good
reason for friends and family to get together and be part of the new little life.
I was
recently invited for a baby shower of a colleague. It is a blessing to be part
of his baby shower celebration and it was enjoyable to see and play with the
cute 1st-month baby! However, this question came to my mind like all my previous other
red packet questions –
How much angpao money should I give to my baby/infant full month?
There are
elements of similarity with red packets for weddings in this question, and I
would say it would depend on:
- The type of event ( Can range from house visit to lavish hotel setting)
- Relationship with the couple
Typically
baby showers are held at the couple’s house or a function room of a condo.
$50 seemed like a rate that I would give an ok
friend. A simple $50 note is polite, but I personally find that you can go an
extra mile to show that you care. For example, you can augment your red packet amount
with auspicious numbers like $68, $88.
For close
friends and relatives, I would go with $168.
It bodes well as it sounds similar to 一路發, which means earning big money throughout the baby’s life journey.
If you feel
like giving more, by all means! More
is always better than less, especially for the couple as it can help defray
some of the exorbitant expenses needed to raise the baby.
Hope this was useful for you
EUFASS
thought it's pretty common for people to give gifts instead of ang po money at baby showers these days...
ReplyDeleteYou are right. Gifts do present the thought of the giver rather than cold hard cash. Will be posting on gift ideas for baby shower up next...
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