60th birthday present ideas for Dad

The 60^th birthday has an important significance in many cultures, and it is natural for the filial child to want to get a present for their parent to celebrate this milestone. In Chinese, we call this coming to age 六十大寿 (liu shi da shou), which signifies a great achievement. I have a friend whose Dad is turning 60 next month, and she asked me for gift ideas.

I recall fretting over the same issue a few years ago when my Dad celebrated his 60^th birthday. I am sure some of you are looking for inspiration on what best to give your Dad or loved ones for their 60^th birthday. Well look no further, you would be surprised that the answer actually comes from within you.

Ask yourself

If you stop to think about your previous interactions with your Dad, you might find some clue as to what might be the best present to give him.

Ask yourself what he values:

Is he a person that values quality time? If so, spend a day out with him.
Is he the sentimental type? If so, make him a photo frame with a family picture inside.
Is he the breadwinner who is also doing the household chores? If so, get him a robotic cleaner!

Ask yourself what he likes:

Is he into SPORTS? Golf clubs, tennis rackets, etc
Or is he a fine connoisseur of the ARTS? Music CDs, drama DVDs, etc
What about his favourite food? Everyone definitely has his own personal favourite!  

Ask yourself what you observed:

Is his backpack worn-out and overused? If so, you know what to do.
Did he spend a little bit more time looking at the particular camera at COURTS?
Did he complain of back pain frequently? Even a massage is a sweet enough present of appreciation.

In fact, I think that the gift idea that you manage to come up after reflecting is most likely the best and most sincere option.

10 gift ideas for his 60th birthday

In the event that you are not really close to your Dad and not very sure, or that your Dad is the extremely simple person that is fine with everything (totally possible), or just plain clueless - not to worry! There are always businesses out there with a plethora of products for your leisure selection. I have shortlisted 10 ideas with a good mix of unique and safe choices.

1. Throw him a party
   The very first basic thing you can do for him is to hold an event for him. If he is sociable, invite all his friends. If he prefers quality time, keep it cozy to just a family dinner. Get a nice restaurant, or cook a nice dinner for him.
   
   
2. Shirt
   The good old commodity that everyone needs. Who doesn’t wear a shirt? It might be a common present, but you can make it very unique by choosing something adventurous or make your own.
   
   
3. Parker Pen
   Parker Pens are a symbol of quality. This is especially suitable if your Dad is the type that likes to go around with pen in pocket.
   
   
4. Message Gifts
   You might have seen those souvenirs with words like “World’s greatest Dad” inscribed on them. Choose from either a cup, trophy, t-shirt, etc or even give him the whole set.
   
   
5. Card
   The most traditional yet effective method of conveying your love. Buy or make one.
   
   
6. Take a trip out of town
   Different people travel at different frequencies, but I am sure everyone enjoys seeing a new place with nice scenery. You need not fork out the full amount, but I am sure your Dad will be able to appreciate your effort in organizing and putting a trip together for him and your family.
   
   
7. Photo Scrapbook
   Nothing beats a handmade photo album down memory lane. Great for some family time together reminiscing on the good old days.
   
   
8. Ipad
   You’ll be surprised –the Ipad is so user-friendly and could potentially be used by even the most technological illiterate elderly. My parents are now crawling all over the internet like a teenager, thanks to the Ipad!
   
   
9. Luxury item
   On this special day, buy a luxury item to reward your dad which he would never get during normal days. This can be a bottle of wine, a watch or painting. This is something you’ll expect him to say “Why waste the money??” but you know he feels the sweetness of owning it.
   
   
10. Ang Pao Money  
    The last minute idea is to give cash, of course packaged nicely into a nice red packet. Even if this is not a last minute idea, giving ang pao money is often a good idea. The older generation seems to welcome this; they view it as an encouraging symbol that their children are earning money and are able to provide for them.

Remember, these gifts are commercial, so always think of how to personalize your gift by asking yourself. Even at the course of shortlisting the gift ideas, I have steered to the ones which require some form of personal touch. Ultimately, the best kind of gift in my opinion is an experience that is meaningful and relevant to your Dad’s character. So, put in some effort and start retrospecting!

Hope this tip was useful for you!
EUFASS